This role is combined with other ministries, focusing on holistic support for families at all stages of life in alignment with Catholic teachings on marriage and family.
Key Responsibilities/Duties- Marriage/Weddings
- Act as the primary parish contact for engaged couples inquiring about marriage in the church.
- Guide couples through the full marriage preparation process, including:
- Scheduling and facilitating the FOCCUS (or similar) premarital inventory and reviewing results with clergy or sponsor couples.
- Coordinating required programs such as Pre-Cana retreats, sponsor couple sessions, or diocesan workshops.
- Ensuring completion of necessary paperwork (e.g., prenuptial questionnaire, affidavits of freedom to marry, dispensations if needed).
- Collecting and verifying required documents (civil marriage license, baptismal certificates, etc.).
- Ensure compliance with diocesan policies, Canon Law, and parish guidelines for Catholic weddings.
- Assist couples with liturgy planning:
- Help select appropriate Scripture readings, prayers, music, and vows in line with Catholic teaching.
- Coordinate with clergy, musicians, cantors, altar servers, and other liturgical ministers.
- Manage wedding logistics:
- Schedule and lead (or assist with) wedding rehearsals.
- Oversee day-of details, including setup of the church, coordination with vendors (florists, photographers, videographers), and ensuring adherence to parish rules (e.g., decor, photography restrictions, dress code).
- Be present on the wedding day to direct the procession, manage timing, and address any issues to ensure a reverent and smooth celebration.
- Handle post-wedding tasks:
- Ensure the marriage is properly recorded in sacramental registers.
- Assist with notifications (e.g., to churches of baptism) and mailing of civil licenses if needed.
- Provide pastoral support:
- Welcome and accompany couples (including interfaith or returning Catholics) with kindness and hospitality.
- Promote ongoing marriage enrichment resources where applicable.
- Collaborate with the pastor, parish staff, and diocesan offices (e.g., Tribunal for annulments).
Key Responsibilities/Duties- Family Life
- Serve as a resource and advocate for families in the parish, promoting the Church’s vision of family as the domestic church.
- Develop, coordinate, and lead programs and events that strengthen family life, such as:
- Marriage preparation and enrichment (e.g., retreats, workshops, anniversary celebrations).
- Parenting support groups, family catechesis, or intergenerational faith formation.
- Ministries for specific needs: grief support, divorced/separated persons, single parents, widows/widowers, families facing addictions, domestic violence, or end-of-life issues.
- Provide education and resources on Catholic teachings related to family life, including openness to life, natural family planning, and building strong marital bonds.
- Collaborate with parish staff and diocesan offices to offer referrals for counseling, social services, or specialized support.
- Promote awareness and prevention of family challenges (e.g., domestic violence resources, addiction support).
- Assist in welcoming and integrating diverse families into parish life, including young families, seniors, and those from varied cultural backgrounds.
- Maintain records of programs, track participation, and report to the pastor or diocesan family life office as needed.
- Recruit, train, and support volunteers for family ministry initiatives.
Qualifications and Requirements
- Practicing Catholic in full communion with the Church, with a deep commitment to Catholic teachings on marriage, family, and human dignity.
- Strong understanding of Vatican and USCCB documents on family life (e.g., Amoris Laetitia, Familiaris Consortio). Commitment to the Sacrament of Matrimony and Catholic theology of marriage.
- Excellent interpersonal, communication, and organizational skills; ability to relate empathetically to families in various situations.
- Ability to manage multiple weddings/rehearsals (often on weekends/evenings) and work independently.
- Experience in parish ministry, education, counseling, or related fields; familiarity with family dynamics and pastoral care preferred.
- Ability to work collaboratively with clergy, staff, volunteers, and diocesan resources.
- Must complete diocesan safe environment requirements (e.g., background check, VIRTUS training) due to potential work with families and vulnerable persons.
- Comfort with public speaking, event planning, and basic administrative skills.