Live-in Butler / Cook

A private family based in Milan is seeking an experienced and highly organized Butler / Cook to join their household team. The successful candidate will oversee daily household operations, provide high-quality meal preparation, and ensure smooth coordination of staff and family activities. This is a live-in position, offering excellent accommodation within a separate villa on the estate.

Key Responsibilities

• Household Management: Manage and oversee the household team, ensuring smooth daily operations
• Take charge of household schedules, staff coordination, and service standards
• Act as the key point of contact for the family regarding household matters

Meal Preparation

• Prepare and cook simple, healthy meals for the family (e.g., grilled fish, fresh vegetables, curries)
• Adhere to dietary preferences (no dairy; children occasionally eat cheese)
• Ensure kitchen cleanliness and meal planning are maintained to a high standard

Service & Table Setting

• Set and prepare the breakfast table (no breakfast cooking required)
• Provide discreet and professional service during family meals and gatherings

Driving & Errands

• Drive children to school, clubs, and activities as required
• Assist with errands, grocery shopping, and occasional family logistics

Ideal Candidate Profile

• Prior experience in a similar role in a high-net-worth household
• Strong leadership and management skills – able to take control while maintaining a calm, respectful presence
• Military background or comparable experience is highly desirable
• Flexible, discreet, and highly reliable
• Confident driver with clean driving record
• An EU passport is essential

Accommodation

• Separate private villa on the estate, featuring multiple bedrooms, living room, and fully equipped kitchen

Benefits

• Competitive salary: £70,000 – £95,000, dependent on experience
• Relocation assistance and flights provided for UK-based candidates
• All accommodation and utilities covered