Professional Matchmaker Client Advisor Date Coach

Portland Singles; Portland (OR); On-site; USD 30,307 - 38,572; Full time

Benefits offered by this job

Flexible schedule

Health insurance

Paid time off

Performance bonuses

Job summary

Portland Singles is seeking a full-time in-office Matchmaker in downtown Portland. In this role, you will manage 50 members, deliver curated matches, and provide support before and after dates. We're looking for someone with over 5 years in emotionally demanding roles who can handle honest conversations with clients.

The position offers an hourly wage of $22–$28, plus performance bonuses for quota attainment. Enjoy a structured work environment, medical benefits, and a supportive office culture.

Qualifications

• 5+ years of experience in emotional intelligence and accountability roles.
• Ability to give honest feedback sensitively and effectively.
• Organized enough to manage 50 active relationships.

Responsibilities

• Manage an active caseload of approximately 50 members.
• Deliver curated matches weekly, meeting quotas.
• Coach clients before and after dates, offering constructive feedback.

Skills

Emotional intelligence

Accountability

Organizational skills

Client communication

Job description

Benefits:

• Flexible schedule
• Health insurance
• Paid time off

Portland Singles | Downtown Portland | Full-Time, In-Office | $22–$28/hr + Performance Bonuses

Portland Singles has been the Pacific Northwest's most trusted professional matchmaking service. Our matchmakers are the people clients trust with one of the most personal decisions of their lives — who they spend their time, energy, and heart on.

What you'll actually do:

• Manage an active caseload of approximately 50 members — knowing each of them well enough to recognize a good fit in seconds
• Hand-select and deliver curated matches per week, meeting both weekly and monthly quotas
• Coach clients before dates (photos, conversation, expectations) and debrief them after — including telling them what they don't always want to hear
• Maintain detailed, accurate profile notes so each match is sharper than the last
• Respond to client communication promptly and professionally — this is white‑glove service for people who've trusted us with their love lives
• Partner with our Enrollment Counselors so every new member is set up for success from day one

Compensation & perks:

• Hourly wage: $22 – $28/hr depending on experience
• Performance bonuses tied to quota attainment and positive client reviews
• Medical benefits and PTO
• Beautiful downtown Portland office, walking distance to Pioneer Square
• M–F schedule — no nights, no weekends, no travel
• The real reward of helping people find love

You're a strong fit if:

• Have 5+ years of experience in a role that demanded both emotional intelligence and accountability — examples: therapy/counseling, dating or life coaching, executive recruiting, high‑end concierge, wedding planning, image consulting, personal styling, or customer success at a premium brand
• Can deliver honest, sometimes uncomfortable feedback in a way that lands as caring rather than critical
• Read people quickly and adjust your tone for each one
• Are organized enough to track 50 active relationships at once without things slipping
• Take deadlines and quotas seriously — they don't rattle you
• Hold sensitive personal information with discretion

This role is NOT for you if:

• You think matchmaking is a glamorous, fluffy job (it's structured, professional, and sometimes emotionally heavy work)
• You avoid hard conversations with paying clients
• You want commission-based or "uncapped" earnings (this role is hourly + bonus by design)
• You rely on memory instead of systems
• You want remote, hybrid, or flexible hours

To apply:

Submit your resume plus a 3–4 sentence answer to this question:

Tell us about a time you gave someone honest feedback they didn't want to hear — about how they came across, how they were behaving, or what they were doing wrong. What did you say, and how did they respond?

Applications without an answer to the question will not be reviewed.